nsfw furry social anxiety Show more
gaahhh I wish I knew how to approach people with “you’re hot and we’re acquainted and we have a good set of Fetish Overlap and you have connections to a good specialty artist, would you want to commission something together if you did 90% of the coordination and I paid?” because, well, I guess the reasons are kinda obvious
re: nsfw furry social anxiety Show more
@kistaro True! The most recent thing was that sort of situation. That being said, Taranima is definitely one of the easiest to work with artists I've ever commissioned on top of doing... uh... "really good stuff".
Getting more organized about how commission art helped me get over a lot my anxiety around it. Aka I keep some lists of ideas and artists I want to get something from because 90% of the time I'd pass up on a slot from someone I wanted something from because I couldn't come up with an idea in the short time frame they were open.. or I'd get the slot... and be completely blank on ideas.. which made for a nasty anxiety feedback loop.