Head's up, Value Village has their 99 cent t-shirt sale today (though I'm not sure if the sale is held on the same date at all locations?). They save their best shirts to put out for this sale, too. I was looking forward to it all year, and I just went there and restocked my wardrobe with t-shirts so wacky that I don't know where I'd have found them otherwise.
Make "silver fox" a gender-inclusive term of aesthetic admiration for older women and chic seniors of all genders!
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https://SheVibe.com is supposed to be one of the best places for buying any brand of sex toys.
I've seen a lot of reviews agreeing that the best strap-on harnesses, functionally, are the kind that don't look like "harnesses," and look more like fabric underwear. They hold more securely, are easier to put on (or even wear under your ordinary clothes), and are machine washable. RodeoH is the main brand for that, and has a masculine aesthetic. There are some other brands that look more feminine (pastel and frilly). You can find tutorials for making a DIY fabric harness out of some underwear and rubber O-rings, which is cheaper and lets you make it look however you want.
For a more classic harness shape, but made with sparkly plastic and fun colors, GNAT's harnesses look really aesthetically intriguing. https://gnat.shop/
If your partner is at all comfortable with using toys that penetrate their own vagina, I strongly recommend that they get a Tantus Feeldoe, which is a "strapless" strap-on dildo that is designed to transmit sensation to the wearer. It effectively simulates what it *feels* like to have a penis, even according to post-op trans women, so it's an experience not to miss. Tantus has a few different models of it (slimmer, and/or more anatomically realistic), and other brands have made their own variations and knock-offs.
There was a brand of strap-on dildo that had a hole through it, so it would transmit suction to the wearer during oral sex, but last I heard, it was no longer manufactured. Maybe there are some like that now? Anyone know?
I also remember seeing pictures of a few kinds of strap-on dildos that had a textured base, so that it would rub on the wearer's clit when in action. I don't think that was unique to just one brand. I have no idea what brands those were, but that could be interesting?