This is a completely sane, rational, god-given, inalienebubble, um... endownded, um... what else works here... and normal means of communicationing my needs. I have no idea why anyone would have an issue with this.
I also have no idea why any of my partners should have a personality, will, or thoughts of their own that don't revolve around me as the center of the universe.
Sarcasm aside, I truly hope this is a scam that alerts the intended victim-partner how manipulative the initiating partner is willing to be.
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